Allow me to tell you why. Your first date, sets the foundations for charming a man. Irrespective of where you met, whether it's work or a coffee shop or the internet, your first date always begins from messaging.
Here are my 5 things to avoid when messaging with a man, prior to going on a date with him:
1. Never send bikini photos
Men are like typical natural predators, they love hunting. So don't show him everything at once. Make him work for it. Toy with him. Like a cat and a mouse. Don’t come across cheap. If he wants to see more, he needs to work hard at it, because YOU are the Queen! And he really needs to knows that clearly!2. Never discuss sexually indecent material
Because you will make him think only about sex, sex and nothing but sex... and when you meet him eventually, he will perceive you as nothing more than a sex toy. And you want to avoid that, because our mission is much deeper, right?We want him to look at us more seriously, more than just another body. You can, for example, tease a man (use my flirting tips) and this you also must learn to do properly, because a woman has to flirt with the man who she likes, but ALWAYS subtly and never directly.
3. Never talk about negative subjects
⁃ First of all, no one enjoys negative stories and any similar topics⁃ Secondly, he's decided to text you because he wants to have a good time, not listening to a narrative about how the world sucks, society is unfair blah blah
⁃ Thirdly, it's important to ensure he only has good memories of you after your messaging, otherwise, when he has free time to message you, he'll subconsciously will be deterred from doing so.
4. Never complain
Girls, no one likes it. For sure, everyone have problems in their life. Guys just want to have a good time spending with you. Focus on finding some interesting topic to discuss. HINT: Most men enjoy topics around sports, current affairs, money etc. So, be ready to discuss around these topics, you will definitely impress him.5. Never answer instantly
Let him wait, and keep him in suspense about you and your answers. Don't forget men are hunters, they love to hunt. Keep it in mind.But don't make him wait too long, because he can also lose interest in you. No need to reply after 2 days. You understand what I mean. Be playful but not too much.
So, what you need to do, is simply stay classy and when he invites you for a date, make sure you are prepared in detail on everything about elegance, seductive walking and posing. The way how a woman walks tells a lot about her confidence, inner self and life style. And all of this I teach to my students at my online course "Walk & Pose like a DIVA".
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